About Me

I'm a single mom with a full-time job and not a lot of extra time or money (well, no extra money and a little bit of extra time here and there) and a desire to somehow make a difference in the world. A blog seemed like a good place to start. So here it is, a start. Hope someone, somewhere finds a little inspiration from my random reflections.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Tired of the Holiday Hype? Fabulous, Inexpensive Environmentally-Friendly Gifts

Somewhere along the line, Christmas lost its charm for me. The Christmas music in the stores, the Christmas displays, the "buy, buy and buy some more" mentality just wore me down and reminded me every day that I was broke, broke and more broke!  When I was married, my husband and I would take more money than we could possibly afford to spend, go to the mall with a list in hand and an exact amount to spend on each person and robotically buy a ton of presents for a ton of people (some of whom I didn't even particularly care for)!
I would send out my obligatory Christmas cards, complete with my obligatory xeroxed list of my family's past year's events to the people on my obligatory Christmas card list and suddenly, somehow Christmas had become a time of financial stress and obligation instead of a time of joy and giving.
At some point a few years ago, I decided that I needed to bring back the joy and the magic of the holidays. I needed to get away from the commercial chatter and stop believing that I was somehow not a good person if I didn't give a gift to everyone! I've given myself permission to just give gifts to my immediate family. When I do feel inspired to give a gift to a friend, I give something useful and/or consumable. I have requested that my parents and my friends return the favor if they feel inspired to give me a gift!
My holiday card list has shrunk down to a few faithful friends. I no longer send cards to every person in my address book (yes, I really did that, I really thought I was somehow obligated to do that!).
I have created traditions for my kids that I hope they will take with them for the rest of their lives. Hay rides and hot cider and a u-cut Christmas tree from a local tree farm, a roast "beast" and Yorkshire pudding feast, complete with poppers full of jokes and silly paper crowns. I hope I have shown them that the most important things in life aren't things and that you don't have to spend a lot of money to let someone know how much you love them.
I've put together some ideas for really cool, inexpensive, environmentally kind gifts. Yes, they require a little thought, a little love, a little extra effort but personally, I much prefer spending time at home making gifts than cruising the mall for obligatory, meaningless trinkets.
Happy Holidays!


Clothes Pin Candle Holders

My BFF, Kelle gave me a pair of these for my birthday.
Lovely and very simple to make!
Materials:
2 clean, empty 4 oz. tuna cans, labels and tops removed
Enough clothes pins to fit around the perimeter of cans
Raffia ribbons to make them pretty
Small glass candle holders
2 votive candles


Hand-painted glasses



I did these champagne flutes for my parents' 50th wedding anniversary and gave these wine glasses as gifts last year. You can paint anything from orange juice glasses to vases and pitchers. You can buy inexpensive glassware at places like Ross and buy the glass paint from a craft store like Michael's, but I always make an effort to buy from local businesses. I am always amazed at the beautiful glassware I can find in thrift stores! Follow the directions on the glass paint bottles and voila!, you have created a unique and truly useful gift!

Comfort Pillows

My mom gave each of us one of these comfort pillows. They are cozy, warm, fabulous gifts to receive! She made heart shapes but circles and rectangles are wonderful too!

Herbal Scented Lavender Heart


1.         Make a heart shaped pattern approximately 18” across at the widest part.
Using the pattern on double layers of the cloth, cut 2 muslim shapes and 2 shapes out of a pretty flannel or fleece fabric(the raised polka-dot fleece is nice!)
2.         Sew around the muslim heart using a ½” seam and leaving a 6” opening at the point.
3.         Sew around the fabric heart (with sides facing back-to-back) also using a ½” seam and leaving a 6” opening at the point.
4.         Turn both hearts inside-out.

Recipe for Flax/Lavender/Rice mixture:
Mix together
2 Cups Flax seed
6 Cups cheapest white rice
6 to 10 T Lavender buds

5.         Using a large funnel, pour mixture into the muslin bag and stitch the point closed.  Insert the muslin bag into the fabric and stitch the point closed.

To give as a gift, attach a tag saying:

Herbal Scented Lavender Heart
Place in microwave for 3-4 minutes until thoroughly warm.
Test for heat; apply to aching area.  Best to have a layer of
Clothing between heart and bare skin.



Basket of Goodies


You can really get creative with this one. You can find beautiful baskets and fun container thingies for a song in thrift shops and you can fill the basket with anything! 
It's a great way to really spend some time considering the person who will be receiving the gift and putting some thought into what will go in the basket. If cash is tight, bake some cookies, pick some flowers, write a poem. If money isn't an issue, you can pick a theme and go with that. Like "wine and chocolate", "lazy, rainy day essentials", "music lover" or "all organic"!



Hand-knitted scarves


I have attempted to learn to knit many times but the amount of time between the learning and the doing is always too long and I forget how every time. But, there is nothing like receiving a warm, fuzzy scarf to keep you cozy in the winter. If you are like me and don't knit or crochet, you can usually find some fabulous and fairly inexpensive locally made scarves and hats. Hit up the local holiday bazaars. I guarantee you will find some there!



These are just a few ideas that popped in to my head.  I will post more if I think of any. I am always trying to come up with new, creative gifts that don't cost a lot and have very little impact on the environment. If you have any ideas, please feel free to share them! If you have a photo, send it! I would be happy to post them here.